Haldi invitation: what to write, messages and dress code ideas
A haldi invitation should tell guests three things fast: whose haldi it is, when and where it starts, and what to wear (usually yellow, and clothes they don't mind staining). Below you will find what to include, 18 original haldi invitation messages in English, Hindi and Hinglish that you can copy in one tap, dress-code ideas, and Haldi Aangan, our sunny haldi invitation design.
By the Gulabi Card team · Published 6 October 2026
What the haldi ceremony is
The haldi is the turmeric ceremony held a day or two before the wedding, usually at home. A paste of turmeric with gram flour (besan), curd or milk, sandalwood or rose water is applied to the bride or groom by the married women of the family, then by everyone else. Turmeric is auspicious, it is believed to protect from the evil eye, and it gives the skin a glow for the wedding day.
The ceremony has many names. Marwari and Gujarati families call it pithi, and in many Rajasthani homes it begins the ban days (see our Rajasthani wedding invitation guide). In Uttar Pradesh and Bihar it is often ubtan or haldi-tel, and in South India you will hear mangala snanam for the ritual bath. Today many families also make it a separate event with its own invitation, decor and playlist, which is why a dedicated haldi invite has become so popular.
What to include in a haldi invitation
Whose haldi it is
The bride's, the groom's, or a joint haldi. Families often hold two on the same morning in different homes.
Date and start time
Most haldis are in the morning or early afternoon. Give a real start time, not just 'morning'.
Venue with a map pin
Often the family home, a terrace or a farmhouse. A Google Maps link saves a dozen phone calls.
Dress code
Yellow, white or 'clothes you don't mind ruining'. Guests appreciate the warning.
What happens after
Brunch, lunch, a dhol session or a pool party. It tells guests how long to stay.
RSVP
So you know how much paste, how many flowers and how much food to plan for.
A contact person
A cousin or friend who can answer 'Is parking available?' on the day.
Haldi invitation messages to copy
Replace the words in brackets with your own names, date and venue. All 18 messages were written for this page, so you will not find them repeated on every other site. Want full wedding card wording instead? Try the wedding card matter generator.
Haldi invitation messages in English
For WhatsApp groups, office friends and anyone who reads English more easily.
The haldi is ready and so are we! Join us for [Bride]'s haldi on [Date] at [Time], [Venue]. Wear yellow and come prepared to get a little golden.
Before the pheras comes the glow. You are warmly invited to [Groom]'s haldi ceremony on [Date], [Time], at [Venue]. Old clothes, big smiles.
A bowl of turmeric, a courtyard of family and lots of laughter. Please join the [Family name] family for [Bride]'s haldi on [Date] at [Time].
Marigolds, music and more haldi than anyone needs. Come and bless [Bride] and [Groom] at their haldi on [Date], [Venue]. Dress code: sunshine yellow.
We'd love you to put the first touch of haldi on [Bride]. Haldi ceremony: [Date], [Time], at home ([Address]). Brunch after the fun.
Fair warning: you will leave yellow. [Groom]'s haldi is on [Date] at [Time], [Venue]. Wear something you don't mind ruining and bring your dancing feet.
हल्दी निमंत्रण संदेश (Hindi)
For elders and family WhatsApp groups. Replace the names in brackets.
हल्दी की रस्म में आपकी उपस्थिति हमारे लिए आशीर्वाद होगी। [दुल्हन] की हल्दी [तारीख] को [समय] बजे, [स्थान] पर है। पीले रंग में ज़रूर पधारें।
हल्दी लगेगी, गीत गाए जाएँगे और आँगन ख़ुशियों से भर जाएगा। [दूल्हा] की हल्दी में आप सपरिवार सादर आमंत्रित हैं। दिनांक: [तारीख], समय: [समय]।
शुभ विवाह से पहले शुभ हल्दी! [तारीख] को सुबह [समय] बजे हमारे घर ([पता]) पर हल्दी उत्सव में शामिल होकर [दुल्हन] को आशीर्वाद दें।
मंगल गीत, गेंदे के फूल और हल्दी का रंग। [परिवार का नाम] परिवार आपको [दूल्हा] की हल्दी रस्म में सादर आमंत्रित करता है। [तारीख], [स्थान]।
बिटिया [दुल्हन] की हल्दी है, आपके बिना अधूरी रहेगी। [तारीख] को [समय] बजे पधारकर रस्म की शोभा बढ़ाएँ। पुराने कपड़े पहनकर आएँ!
हल्दी चढ़ेगी, रंग जमेगा। [दूल्हा] और [दुल्हन] की हल्दी में आपका इंतज़ार रहेगा। [तारीख], [समय], [स्थान]। ड्रेस कोड: पीला।
Hinglish haldi messages for WhatsApp
For cousins, friends and anyone who types in Roman Hindi.
Haldi hai, toh rang bhi lagega! [Bride] ki haldi pe aap zaroor aana: [Date], [Time], [Venue]. Yellow pehenke aana, purane kapde chalenge.
Shaadi se pehle thoda sa glow-up! [Groom] ki haldi [Date] ko hai, [Venue] pe. Aapke bina haldi adhoori rahegi.
Mummy ne haldi ghol li hai, ab bas aap ki kami hai. [Bride] ki haldi: [Date], subah [Time] baje, ghar pe. Brunch bhi hai!
Peela pehno, phool lao, aur haldi se mat bhaago. [Bride] aur [Groom] ki haldi: [Date], [Venue]. Milte hain!
Dhol bajega, haldi udegi, aur photos toh banenge hi. [Groom] ki haldi rasm mein aap sab invited ho: [Date], [Time].
Pyaar ka rang peela hai, kam se kam is hafte! [Bride] ki haldi [Date] ko, [Venue] pe. Old clothes only, please.
Haldi dress code ideas
A one-line dress code on the invitation makes the photos look planned and saves guests from ruining their best outfit. A few that work well:
All yellow
The classic. Every shade from lemon to mustard looks lovely in photos against the haldi.
White and yellow
White kurtas and saris catch the haldi stains beautifully and make the colours pop.
Floral prints
Small floral kurtas and lehengas in yellow, peach and green for a garden haldi.
Old clothes only
Honest and practical for a playful haldi where everyone ends up covered.
Pastel with a yellow dupatta
Lets guests wear what they own, with one yellow touch for the photos.
Twinning teams
Bride's side in yellow, groom's side in white, for a joint haldi with a little friendly rivalry.
Tip: mention whether there will be flower petals, colour or water play. Elders and guests with young children like to know in advance.
When to send a haldi invite
If the haldi is part of the main wedding invitation, it goes out with everything else, usually three to six weeks ahead. A separate haldi invite for close family and friends can go a week or two before, followed by a short reminder the evening before with the start time and the map pin. If you are planning the whole programme, the free Indian wedding checklist keeps the rest of the planning on track.
A haldi invitation design that feels like the ceremony
Haldi Aangan is a full invitation website for ₹2,000. Use it just for the haldi, or as your main wedding invitation with separate pages for haldi, mehendi, sangeet and the wedding.
The bride sits on a low wooden patla in a sunny courtyard while the women of the family bring bowls of haldi, marigold petals fly through the air and yellow bunting hangs between the balconies. The inner page is a laughing couple throwing petals inside a marigold frame.
Add your dress code, a map pin, RSVP and a short voice note from Dadi or Nani inviting everyone in her own words.